Development is key for your career and personal life.
Development is key for your career and personal life.
Never stop learning. Lifelong learners have a high probability of being able to achieve the goals they set for themselves. Seven Stones takes an in-depth look at the topics of learning, development, and growth.
Why Do I Need a Coach? Four Powerful Reasons
Hiring a life coach is more than a trend, it is an intentional investment in yourself. Many people wonder if the time and financial commitment is worth it. The answer is yes, because coaching provides four powerful benefits: validation, insight, action planning, and accountability.
What Kind of Coach Are You?
When we hear the word coach, our minds usually jump to athletics. But coaching extends far beyond the playing field. There are life and business coaches, executive coaches, debate team coaches, book coaches, and the list goes on.
But have you ever thought of yourself as a coach? If you’re a leader, you’re coaching every time you provide feedback or encouragement. If you’re a parent, you’re coaching your children in how to speak, act, and make decisions. As a spouse or friend, you’re coaching whenever you respond to a complaint or a concern.
That Conversation Was Not a Good One
We’ve all been there. You go into a critical conversation prepared. You think through what you want to say, maybe even jot down a few points to keep yourself focused. You feel ready and confident, yet somehow, the conversation backfires. The other person seems to shut down, you don’t feel heard, and instead of progress, you end up with tension or silence.
I Thought I was Buying a Goat
I recently participated in a networking meeting where we were given the prompt, “I thought I was buying a goat, but I got a sheep.” The exercise encouraged us to reflect on circumstances in which we expected one outcome but ended up with something entirely different. That phrase has lingered with me. It’s a lighthearted way to describe a universal experience: we all, at some point, thought we were buying a goat but ended up with a sheep.
March into Fall
It’s time to say goodbye to summer. The days are getting shorter, the evenings are cooler, and yes, the first pumpkin latte has already made its way into the season. Fall is always a time of transition. Summer vacations are over, kids are back in school, and work routines return with a renewed urgency to finish the year strong. The question is: how can you master a smooth transition into fall?
Less Stress and Better Results
How do you prioritize your tasks? Is it off the cuff, deciding in the moment based on what feels urgent? Or do you follow a more detailed, intentional process? A better question might be: How is your team prioritizing their work?
Faster, Better, More Accurate
When was the last time you took a deliberate, objective look at what your team is actually doing? If your answer to process questions is, “We’ve always done it that way,” it may be time for a deeper review. But where should you begin?
Leadership Lessons for Responding to a Crisis
Most workdays move along predictably. A few unexpected challenges may arise, but we rarely find ourselves in a true crisis. When a significant disruption does occur, whether it’s a cyberattack, a key employee suddenly resigning, or a supply chain breakdown, it calls for more than routine problem-solving. It demands steady leadership, swift coordination, and clear communication.
A Disrupted Routine
Disruptions, whether planned or unexpected, can easily throw us off course. The key is not to resist, but to intentionally adapt. Recently, both my personal and work routines were disrupted, one planned, the other not. Let me tell you what happened and how I navigated the upheaval.
I Hate Conflict
It's common to hear or say, "I hate conflict!" We are often conditioned to believe that conflict is inherently negative and should be avoided at all costs. However, what happens when we avoid conflict, and how can we leverage it to our advantage?
Yes, I will do it!
For me, procrastination starts as a physical urge, a need to get up, move around, or do anything but the task at hand. Next time you want to procrastinate, pause and check in with yourself. What are you feeling? You can train yourself to recognize that feeling and rather than give in to it, tell yourself clearly, “No, you’re staying right here and tackling this task.”
Celebrate Your Wins
I recently experienced a significant win, which reminded me of the importance of honestly acknowledging such moments. It’s not just about money. It’s about morale, learning, and momentum.
Are you Fully Engaged?
I felt scattered, half-present in conversations, skimming over tasks, and sometimes, going through the motions. I knew I needed to make a change. “Fully Engaged” became a personal compass. Let me share what that phrase has come to mean in my life.
Are You Using AI Yet?
AI seems to be everywhere these days. For a while, I didn’t pay much attention—I wasn’t sure what it was, and I took no steps to learn more. That changed and here’s what I’ve learned and how AI is now a part of my work.
Put Your Mask on First
Self-care. It’s become quite a buzzword lately. You see it on magazine covers, hear it in podcasts, and scroll past it daily on social media. But beyond the trend, it holds a truth that many of us have learned the hard way.
Why Can't I Make Up My Mind?
Many intelligent, accomplished professionals care deeply about their people. They take pride in listening well, in weighing all perspectives, and in creating environments where every voice matters. But for all their strengths, they can also present a quiet and frustrating challenge, which is the moment when everyone else’s viewpoint starts to muddy the waters of decision-making, resulting in indecisiveness.
Put Me In, Coach
Preparing Your Business for Something New
There comes a time in the life of every business when innovation becomes essential, whether in the form of a new product, entering a different market, or a meaningful improvement to an existing product or service. That moment may begin with a sense of readiness, a clear intention to grow, and the conviction to say, “Put me in, Coach, I’m ready.”
Let’s Get Real
Why is it so difficult to be more authentic with one another, especially when things aren’t quite matching the glossy version we present to the world? Why do we default to a cheerful, polished “all good!” rather than sharing something a bit more real?
A Triumphant Transition
Life transitions are inevitable. They happen in all areas, our health, relationships, where we live, and often most disruptively, in our professional lives. New careers, job promotions, layoffs, retirement, or even selling a business can feel like earth-moving shifts. Some transitions are carefully planned. Others arrive uninvited. But whether planned or unexpected, how can we shift from simply surviving a transition to navigating it successfully?
What’s Keeping You Up at Night?
Running a business can be incredibly rewarding, but let’s be honest, it can also be incredibly stressful. As a business leader, owner, or CEO, your workday doesn’t always end at 5:00 PM. And sometimes, your mind doesn’t clock out at all. Instead of resting, you find yourself staring at the ceiling, replaying the day, worrying about cash flow, team dynamics, or that client who hasn’t called back.